Public speaking@publicspeaking
You may be wondering what is the big deal about public speaking, anyway? Do I have to keep my hands clamped tight and my heart rate up like some terrified martial arts expert? Why are experts always telling me to "be careful" when I think I'm going to stumble or make some grave mistake? The answer is simple - preparation.
When I go to speak in front of an audience, I do my best to think like them, and to use their body language as well as possible. That's right - I am particularly concerned about my audience's body language. I study it and analyze it to see if I can use my body language to get my point across. The good news, however, is that you can easily overcome your anxiety and perform remarkably well regardless of your audience's body language.
One thing you'll need to keep in mind when studying how to be confident in public speaking is that even two people who are on opposite ends of the emotional spectrum will still have some degree of emotional response to your speaking. For instance, if your audience member has a strong negative opinion of a public figure, such as your boss, politician or an athlete, he or she will likely express it through body language. This can range from mildly uncomfortable to outright disgusted. You need to be aware of this and take care not to react too strongly to it unless your goal is to disgust your audience member.
In addition, even if your audience member is a lifelong friend, even if he or she has given you some grief in the past, it's still important to keep the lines of communication open at all times. If you're stage-managing a presentation or speech, especially during critical moments, it's also important to be courteous and friendly. It's not enough to have good public speaking skills; you need to be a good listener, as well, and be prepared to give thoughtful answers to any questions that may be asked of you during a presentation. People love to talk about themselves and they love to hear about their own achievements and failures.
Also, make sure to tell your audience what you plan to say - in advance. Don't anticipate the question; instead, indicate what you plan to say so that the audience can be more prepared to ask questions of you later on. You may also want to include an element of surprise. Sometimes, a question that is asked at the beginning of the presentation can lead to more questions in the end. By indicating that something will be discussed in your speech, you give your audience some time to get to know you and the information that you are about to share.
Another important aspect of public speaking is your posture and the way you sit. Don't lean back in your chair or rock your hips. Your posture is often called your posture of authority, and this gives the appearance that you are trying to get everyone to follow you. In fact, many people fear public speaking because they feel like they don't know enough people in order to speak in front of a crowd. If you are uncomfortable standing in front of a group of people and don't feel comfortable, your performance is going to suffer. Speak up, even if it's embarrassing.
You should also listen carefully to the questions your audience asks. Even if you are familiar with most of the information your audience is asking, sometimes you will still find something new. You can use this information to guide your own answer. You also need to make eye contact with each and every audience member that you meet.
Public speaking is never easy, but it does not have to ruin your life. If you are prepared, you will be able to speak in front of an audience. Also, realize that there are plenty of resources out there to help you prepare for speaking in public. You should also take advantage of these resources. As long as you practice your speaking skills, speak up and speak out, you will be alright.
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